For many survivors of domestic violence, the decision to leave an abusive situation isn’t only about their own safety — it’s also about the safety of their pets. Abusers often threaten or harm animals as a way to maintain control, making survivors fear what might happen if they leave.
Many pet owners entering domestic violence shelters report that their abuser had threatened, injured or killed family pets. Too often, this fear prevents people from escaping dangerous situations.
Organizations like New Life Center understand that pets are family. For some survivors, a beloved dog or cat may be their only source of unconditional love and comfort. Leaving them behind isn’t an option.
Welcoming animals into programs removes one of the biggest barriers preventing people from seeking safety. Survivors can take their first steps toward healing without the added heartbreak of separation from their furry companions.
Pets play a powerful role in emotional recovery. Animals offer comfort, reduce stress and provide a sense of normalcy in the midst of crisis. For children especially, having a pet close by can ease the trauma of leaving home, friends and familiar surroundings. The presence of a pet can soothe anxiety, promote healing and remind survivors that unconditional love and trust still exist.
Shelters like New Life Center provide a safe, welcoming environment for animals, including food, supplies, and spaces that pets and their owners can enjoy together. Staff are trained to support survivors and their pets, understanding the special bond between them.
But the commitment to survivors goes far beyond offering safe shelter. Services designed to help families rebuild their lives include resources, case management, community connections and safety planning to empower survivors as they move forward. Community education programs raise awareness about domestic violence and teach prevention strategies, helping to break the cycle of abuse.
Those not staying in shelter have access healing services, therapy and advocacy, ensuring that support is accessible to anyone who needs it, whenever they are ready.
By creating a trauma-informed environment that includes pets, we send a powerful message: survivors are not alone, and every member of their family matters. This approach helps survivors feel seen and supported, reducing feelings of isolation and fear. It also strengthens the trust between survivors and advocates, allowing us to better meet their needs.
Every survivor’s journey is unique, but the presence of a cherished pet can be a stabilizing force during one of life’s most unstable moments. Safety, family and pets matter. Together, we can create a future free from violence where healing and hope can thrive.
Editor’s note: Kate Thoene is CEO of Goodyear-based New Life Center, Arizona’s largest domestic violence shelter. Please submit comments at yourvalley.net/letters or email them to AzOpinions@iniusa.org. We are committed to publishing a wide variety of reader opinions, as long as they meet our Civility Guidelines.
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