Kara Boyce

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The holiday season can be a magical time for families, but for parents, it often brings an added layer of stress. Between managing holiday shopping, planning festive meals, attending school functions and juggling work commitments, it’s easy for parents to put their own needs on the back burner.

According to the American Psychological Association, approximately 38% of adults who experience stress during the holiday season reported using negative coping mechanisms such as isolating themselves, overeating or restricting their diets, or relying on substances like alcohol or nicotine to feel better.

By taking care of themselves, parents can model healthy behaviors for their children and fully enjoy the holiday season with their families.

What is self-care?

Self-care is the intentional practice of nurturing your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well-being. It’s about taking the time to check in with yourself and prioritize your needs.

While the concept of self-care is universal, it looks different for everyone. For some, self-care may be the simple act of reading a book in silence, while for others, it might involve engaging in physical activities like yoga or going for a run.

Forms of self-care

Self-care encompasses various aspects of our well-being, including mental, emotional and physical health. Engaging in even brief moments of movement — whether it’s a short walk, stretching or dancing — can significantly uplift your mood and bring a sense of clarity.

Similarly, the physical spaces we inhabit, from our homes to our workplaces, play a crucial role in shaping our emotional state. Creating environments that feel organized and inviting can foster calm and positivity.

Connectivity

 Staying connected with loved ones, friends and the wider community is another cornerstone of self-care.

Regularly reaching out to those who may be struggling not only offers them support but also helps us feel more grounded and less isolated. These interactions remind us of the value of human connection and reduce feelings of overwhelm.

Transformative power of nature

Spending time outdoors is equally transformative for our well-being. Much like children, adults experience improved emotional regulation and a boost in mental health when immersed in nature.

Feeling the sun on your skin, breathing in fresh air or simply changing your scenery can reduce stress, enhance creativity and spark moments of awe that rejuvenate the soul. Incorporating these practices into your daily routine can create a foundation for lasting balance and resilience.

As a parent, prioritizing self-care is not just about improving your own well-being — it’s about creating a positive ripple effect for your entire family.

Whether it’s setting aside a few quiet moments for yourself before the day begins, involving your family in outdoor activities to recharge together, or fostering open conversations about feelings and stress, these small but meaningful actions can strengthen your family bond. When parents are calm and present, it creates a more joyful and relaxed environment where holiday traditions and precious moments can flourish.

This season is a time for connection and celebration, but it’s easy to become overwhelmed by the demands of it all. By integrating self-care into your routine, you’ll find it easier to focus on what truly matters — making lasting memories with your loved ones. Let this holiday season be one of balance, warmth and togetherness for you and your family.

Editor’s note: Kara Boyce program administrator for the Arizona’s Children Association. Reader reactions, pro or con, are welcomed at AzOpinions@iniusa.org.